I want to share with you this story that one of my readers sent to me via my advice collumn. (Ask Whitty--->) If you haven't seen it, feel free to leave me your questions! Oh dear. I think we need your help on this one. I call this story The story of Betty's Post Heartache Freak out. Enjoy!

Betty and Earnie had been dating for quite some time. Like most couples they had their ups and downs but they had no major fights and were generally pretty happy! They really enjoyed each other's company. Until PMDD hit and Betty about lost it!

But  anyways, one day she finally did it... She did an unspeakeable act that no one ever wants to catch theirselves doing. She. Went. Female on him. Have you been there? As ashamed as Betty is knowing that any of you are reading this blog, Betty still wants me to share this story with you as maybe some of you have gone through this. So here it goes... Betty was snooping. In fact, she went through Earnie's phone against his will and read his texts. Oh dear. How do you come back from that one?! Now Betty was one of the rare forms of girls who always thought that people who snooped on their partners or invaded their privacy were crazy! But she did and she found something she did not like.

Hold on for a second...Lets do a little recap on the story of Betty and Earnie first to kind of help you decide if she was in the wrong or in the right and then I'll continue with the juice! Sound good?! Cool. Ahem...So, you see Earnie had been going through a divorce through the entirety of the relationship. The separation from him and his wife had happened years ago and the divorce had been filed a long time ago as well. And one day out of nowhere this woman (Betty) appeared and when he fell in love with this beautiful woman he had decided that for her, he was ready to date. Being that Earnies ex gave Betty the ok to go out with him stating that she really liked Betty and was over him completely, Betty decided to take a leap of faith and date a man with baggage. After all she really liked him and he was treating her like the sun set and rose out of her butt! She couldn't have been happier. And besides, dating him also helped her to get over the heartache of her last relationship so it seemed like a win win situation! She happily said yes.

Well everything was going perfect...their relationship was full of romance and  and excitement.  And then one day out of nowhere his old wife completely flipped out and tried to get him back as soon as she saw that he was finally happy. Poor Betty dealt with it and trusted him until one day she found out that they had been sleeping together and Earnie was even thinking about going back home and rekindling his marriage. Betty broke it off with him and told him to try to go home and that she would not be the other woman. (By the way, Bettie cut off all ties with him during this period). Earnie and his wife started fighting again and agreed that they just couldn't make theirselves love each other. And then he realized that he just couldn't get over Betty. He had really hurt her and he loved her to no end.

(Okay so if I'm getting a little lazy with this story, I appologize! LOL Just keep reading I promise you there is an ending).

Being an understanding person, and knowing that it happened out of the guilt from his ex, her family, the kids wanting their daddy home, and from her throwing herself at him which is hard for any guy to withstand from, Betty took him back. She took her first cheater back. They dated for a few months after that but one thing that they just couldn't seem to fix in the relationship is that it really screwed up her head. She had lost her trust for him bc he cheated on her and he lied which Betty knew he was so against. None the less they stayed together and were all in all happy.

One day, Betty got a visit from Aunt flow and got super paraniod. She noticed that Earnie was acting weird again and even though it could have been anything, Betty having trust issues and pmdd read his texts between he and his ex while he was sleeping. Talk about ashamed! She had finally cracked. And when she read these texts she found two disturbing things. I mean after all, she had been with him for a while! There was a text to her from Earnie that startled her beyond belief . I guess that's what she gets for snooping right? The text said "When can we have sex again?" Freaking out, Betty continued reading. There was one more from his wife to him that said, "Are you sure your not with somebody?"

Can you emagine? Of course in an outrage, Betty stormed in his room and  woke him up to confront him. He replied that it was only a joke. Betty contacted Earnie's ex and got the same thing. That it was just a joke and that nothing was going on.

One thing for sure is that up until this point he had really been trying to make it work and Betty still flipped out. He would just get scared when they got too attached because of the children which Betty would take as him wanting to go home again. What a mess. Anyways, was Betty in the wrong? Do you think that he cheated on her again? Please voice your comments and they will be shared on my page. Have a great day Weeblieans!

Still working on adjusting since it's bigger than my other one was so the lower notes are a little choppy as they are hard for me to reach right now. lol. Once I get a strap that's not made out of old belts, I think it will be golden. But sitting down and holding it I can reach. Isn't she pretty???!!!